Women are often uncomfortable having a close physical relationship with someone that they don't feel cares about them. Use a light body spray or scented deodorant to get yourself smelling good.ĭo something nice for her. A really good smell might not guarantee you success but a bad smell will almost definitely count against you. Your girlfriend will think that you stepped right out of a magazine. If it's a really special date night, you might even want to go to a salon to have it styled. Get someone to help you make sure your hair looks nice too. Be sure they match (try a dark purple top with black pants or a navy blue top and brown pants). Put on a pair of nice slacks and a dress shirt, or a dress. Forget the sweatpants or jeans and a t-shirt: you want to show her that tonight is going to be different. Turn up the sexy and you'll start seducing her before you know it. A good place to start is by making an impression on her by changing how you present yourself. This will set you up for more successful romance.

You want to show her that you're breaking from the normal pattern of behavior. You don't want your girlfriend to think that this is just another day. This article has been viewed 1,177,961 times. Her work and expertise have been featured in Australian Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, Australian Women’s Health, Marie Claire, and 60 Minutes. Jacqueline holds a BSc in Biochemistry and Human Sciences from The Australian National University, a Graduate Diploma in Applied Science from the University of Canberra, a BA in Languages and Literature from the University of New England (AU), an MSc in Sexual Health from The University of Sydney, and an MSc in Consciousness, Spirituality & Transpersonal Psychology from The Alef Trust.

In addition to being an accredited Psychosexual Therapist with the Society of Australian Sexologists (SAS), Jacqueline is also a Professional Certified Coach with the International Coach Federation (ICF). With over 20 years of experience, Jacqueline specializes in sex advice, sex tips, and relationship advice. Jacqueline Hellyer is a Licensed Psychosexual Therapist and the Founder of The Love Life Blog and The LoveLife Clinic. This article was co-authored by Jacqueline Hellyer.

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